Show respect for the others persons opinions. Never tell a man he is wrong. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. If you are wrong admit it quickly and emphatically. Begin in a friendly way. Get the other person saying Yes, yes immediately. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. Let the other person feel that the idea is his. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view. Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires. Appeal to nobler motives. Dramatize your ideas. Throw down a challenge

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πŸ“Œ To learn how to love yourself

Accept Your Personality Your life has not ended yet. You still have plenty of years to live. Hence, it's never too late to improve or develop yourself throughout your life. However, it is best if you accept yourself for whom you are. Be happy and celebrate your unique qualities and characteristics. After all, you are a unique individual created from God's own hands. Be Happy With Your Body Size Both men and women are often too conscious about their physical appearance, especially when they see a well-toned and figured person crossing their way. In case of women, some feel that their breasts are just too small, while there are others who feel they have heavy butt. Men, on the other hand, feel inferior to those who are well built or have a great muscular body. For all such gentlemen and ladies, remember that we are not produced from a single factory. Each one of us is different; hence, it is better if you accept, or rather love, your physical appearance. Built Confidence No person is born with natural confidence. It is the upbringing and your surroundings that help you develop poise and self-confidence. Children who are taught to become self independent from an early age have greater level of confidence than those who look up to their parents for every knick and knack. Start revealing a positive attitude and a feeling of self assurance and see how confidence comes natural to you in no time. Find Out Your Good Qualities And Achievements Looking out for some good qualities in yourself? Were you not able to find any? Does that make you hate yourself further? Why? Aren't you a homosapien? Just like every person has some negative attributes, so does he have positive characteristics as well. It is good to criticize your self but then do not be over critical. Accept your flaws and try to come over them. As for your positives, just keep on bettering them and who knows you might be able to love yourself all the more. Stop Regretting On Your Mistakes So, you have committed a mistake? So what? It's just a mistake. No one is going to beat or punish you to death. Making mistakes is natural to any human being. So stop beating or cursing yourself over and over again. Instead, sit down and analyze your mistakes. Take positive lessons from them and find out what different you can do next time to avoid these stupid and silly errors. Forget the past and plan the future. Don't Let Others Dominate You Sad but true, often people treat you like a doormat simply because you allow them to do so. It's your life and no one has the right to control or rule it, except you. So stop being too kind and generous when a friend constantly borrows money from you with no promises of repaying it back. Stand up and dump that guy who calls and looks up to you only for sex and nothing else. Remember, do not let anyone treat you badly because you deserve better than being only used or criticized.

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1. If you are SINGLE and keep on saying "I DON'T TRUST MEN OR WOMEN!" Remember your mates are getting married every Saturday. Let me ask you, are they marrying spirits? Wise up!

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THE CHRISTMAS TREE

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The late Dr Myles Munroe was a man of wisdom.

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SHORT LOVE STORY 1.I stood at the bus stop near the National bank with my earphones on.The Egerton welfare bus had taken long beforearriving.I kept on glancing side from side and watched people walk in diffrent direction with least interest.Just then, a cute lady came talking over the phone towards me.The smile she put on her face was heartmelting.She was fairly tall with long silky black hair thattouched almost the middle of her back, her eyes were shiny and attractive.I stared in her direction as she leisurely paced towards me.As she approached where i was standing, i quickly turned to my phone and started pressing it aimlessly in pretence.She walked passed me without throwing aglance!Just then, the bus screeched into the parking lot hooking loudily to alert those students whowere unware.As i climbed the second step in the bus, a thought came to me,"i will not be able to see this woman again, what the hell! This is a God given chance"I climbed down from the bus and paced in the direction of where she was walking.I stretched my neck over the crowded street and saw her black hair sway from side to side as she leisurely walked.I followed her at a safe distance admiring her figure from behind.I wasnt worried getting to school late. No.Just then, she pulled herself to a bookstall and started glancing at the books as she read the cover.I moved there,and pretended i wanted to buy a book. As she did, i went through the books picking a book after the other, read the cover and droppd it back to the stall.She accidentally touched a pile of books at the edge of the stall and in one fall,the books wentdown like an avalanche.I bent down assisted her to rearange the books back as our eyes met for the first time.She made me to blush alittle!She then left and walked along the street briskly glancing at her phone at some point.I followed her for i didnt know why i couldnt ask her name.She glanced at the back and noticed i was tracing her.I looked left,right, here there pretending i wasnt intrestd in her.She kept on glancing at the back maybe to catch me offgaurd,and that made me uncormfortable and at some point i bent downto tie my shoe laces,or i could turn and start walking in the opposite direction.I saw her cross the street and entered the building directly opposite Easy coach booking office.I couldnt cross immediately because of the damn traffic!I made myself past the slow moving cars and dashed into the bulding.As i made my way in, i saw her enter the Lift as the door closed swiftly, indicating 6th floor.I took the stairs climbing like a racing moving star.As i arrived on the 6th floor puffing and huffing,she dashed out from a certain office and my eyes met with hers!I stood still, my heart beat increased, i was dumbfounded.She smiled as she entered the lift. I quickly thought to myself and crept inside the lift too.I mastered my courage to talk to her.We kept on sneaking quick glancing at each other making sure we dont catch each other offgaurd.I wished the lift to get stuck so we can spend alot time with her.She then pressed GF button and the lift flew down.Upto this time i had not talked to her for i hadtensed to strike a chat.Neither had she.As the lift touched the ground floor,her phonerang but she didnt recieved.She paced towards the other side of the streetpeherps to catch a Mathree to her hood.As she crossed, an over speeding car raced towards her.I shouted pointing towards the car and ran to her.She had seen it and paced to the other side of the road!I saw the car directly towards me.People started to shout and screamed.The car hooted continously.I tried to pace,bt it was too late, the silver coloured roaring subaru was about to hit me when my 6AM morning prayer alarm went a burst!What a nightmare!Enjoy yo week guys. Love u.

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πŸ“Œ Story of Peter and his Girlfriend Mercy

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I found this interesting …
Before you cook beans you go through a selection process in which all the seemingly bad beans are thrown away so only the good beans remain for cooking.
However, when rain comes, the bad beans you threw away in the backyard become seeds, germinate and grow into beautiful crops, with luscious leaves.
From them come plenty of bean seeds and the very same person who judged and threw them away will pluck the leaves and seeds for a healthy meal.
You may be judged, despised and discarded today, but, who knows, the same people judging you will turn to you in your moment of glory.
Do not curse yourself when the world look down on you. Your rain could be a matter of time. Your germination moment could just be around the corner!.Stay focused on your life goals and give your job the best. The best is yet to come.!

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Starting up and running a business requires special skills such as careful planning, research risk assessment, commitment and patience.

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A Things are always not they seem

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What he didn't know was that his friend was a driver and had been sent on an errand with his boss's car!
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A How to develop ones Enterprising Tendencies?

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A How to calm down

Breathe Deeply Though it is an old and repeated technique, nevertheless it really works well. Comfort yourself in a relaxing position and take a deep breath. Hold your breath and start releasing slowly. As your breath leaves you, assume as though you are breathing out fire. To feel the fire exiting from within you, place your hand underneath your nose. Exercise Exercising is, indeed, the best technique for calming down. Move out and indulge yourself into vigorous aerobic exercises for a longer duration than normal to release the pain and anger within you. Also, you can take up running as all it matters is finishing the run rather than worrying about the reasons for your stress. Push yourself against the barbell or the fitness equipment. This would help your mind to focus on nothing else, but finishing the exercise. Close Your Eyes Gently close your eyes and retreat from the present world going deeper and deeper. Let those drops moisten your eyelids helping you regain your equilibrium. You will gradually get back your balance and proper focus. Move Outdoors Whenever you are in an agitated mood, give yourself an hour to indulge into the beauty of the nature. Whether you are angry, opinionated, cynical or uptight, you will soon return home as a relaxed person. Engage yourself into some activities, say walking, biking, running or swimming, in order to clam yourself down. Find Your Way To Water All you guys, who had assumed water to be only a thirst quencher, think again! The various healing and mood effects of water can do wonders to calm you quickly. So, the next time whenever you are over aroused, drink a big glass of water every hour. Besides, you can take a walk along the water, take a look at it or listen to it. If possible, throw yourself into it by going for a bath or swim. Step Back Take a step back and observe the world that you are living in. Lift your head up and look at the stars in the sky. Realize the number of stars filled with many planets just like one of ours. Compare your problem with one of those twinkling stars? Probably, it is just a fight between two ants. In the event of so many serious problems, yours would not seem as a big deal. All it requires is some framing of things and events here and there. And voila! You'll have the solution to your problem in a few moments

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A Difference of men and women at their age

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Many people confuse on the difference between agriculture and agribusiness. What is your opinion on that? What are the main factors that brought development in agribusiness in your coutry? (25 marks)

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A How to bring people around you

Begin with praise and honest appreciation. Call attention to peoples mistakes indirectly. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Let the other man save his face. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

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A Clear explanation of Planning

Planning means looking ahead and checking out future course of action to be followed. It is a preparatory step. Planning is a detailed programme regarding future course of action. It determines on when, how and who is going to perform a specific task

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A Look how words you use may change your life

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A Basic General Enterprising Tendencies (GETs)

β€’ Believe they can act on or interact with their environment
β€’ Are sensitive to opportunities and needs
β€’ Can set goals and make plans to realize ideas
β€’ Are pre-disposed to persevere, be self-reliant and maintain their motivation
β€’ Take calculated risks to facilitate the implementation of plans

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A Sex to repentance

WE JUST HAD SEX:
she was in my arms, we were cuddled together naked and just finished making love to catch up for the lost time.

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A Story of Peter and his Girlfriend Mercy

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A STORY would you stop to listen?

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A Where will this corruption end?

School Group Photo : Headmaster to Photographer ksh.20 is too much. There are 2000 students, Charge Only ksh.10 its sufficient!!

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